Category: Personal

Making Jazz

THE ORIGIN OF TWO MEN WHO WOULD LIFT A WORLD

A Myth for the Covenant Age Before there were networks, before there were guilds, before men remembered how to build in brotherhood,there were two figures whose lives formed opposite halves of the same design. One was born carrying weight.The other was born carrying vision.Time would call them Atlas and The Catalyst. I. The Man Who…
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“I Can Never Be What I Ought to Be Until…”

Like a mirror, it seems I can never be more than what I am in someone else’s reflection.Their eyes become the limit.Their assumptions become the frame.Their perception becomes the ceiling I’m judged by. That’s why it has always felt dangerous to tell people what I have, what I’ve built, or what I can do.The moment…
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Stop Keeping Score. Start Building Kinship.

A STORY OF KINSHIP By Bryant Stratton I am done living in the house of perception. I have walked through every room in that house, each with its own mirror, its own distortion, its own story about who I must be in order to be loved, trusted, valued, or chosen. I’ve lived in the rooms…
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How to Help Adults Go Beyond Their Fear of Play

The Four Arches There is an old story told in a quiet village near the edge of a great forest. It begins with a man who had forgotten how to play. He walked through life with his arms crossed and his jaw tight.He worked hard, carried heavy burdens, and kept his thoughts to himself.People respected…
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Echolocation of the Soul: How We Discover Reality Beyond the Slum

Most of us move through life the way C. S. Lewis described children in a slum:shaping mud pies while a whole world waits beyond the fence.Not because we are foolish, but because the slum feels safe.It is known, predictable, and small enough to understand. But every so often, someone looks up from the mud, senses…
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Why Adults Forget How to Play — And Why It Matters More Than We Think

Somewhere along the way, most adults stop playing. Not because play stops being fun,but because life teaches us that being “serious” is safer.You hear things like: Little by little, play gets replaced by pressure.We build lives around control, certainty, and safety.We think maturity means being careful. But here’s the truth almost nobody talks about: Play…
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The Dandelion in the Concrete and the Rose in the Garden

Why Real Builders Grow Where Beauty Was Never Promised We admire roses. They bloom in curated soil, behind the protection of trimmed hedges and manicured borders. Their beauty is intentional, cultivated, expected. We don’t fault them for it — they simply grew where they were planted. But every now and then, in the overlooked corners…
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The Truth Underneath

Before You Begin: This Is for You If… This isn’t just another model or philosophy. It’s not here to impress you or tell you how to live.It’s here to help you see—to see something you may already feel but haven’t been able to name. This is for you if: You won’t find judgment here. Just…
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Developing Responsible Heirs in UHNW Families

The Need: Preserving Legacy and Preventing “Shirtsleeves to Shirtsleeves” Wealthy families often worry that their hard-earned legacy could dissipate or harm the next generation. Research famously shows that only about 30% of families maintain control of their assets and family harmony by the third generation preparingheirs.com. This “shirtsleeves to shirtsleeves” proverb – wealth gained in…
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Intervention Models for Developing Responsible Heirs

Wealth advisors and family coaches employ a holistic mix of educational, experiential, and coaching interventions to help ultra-high-net-worth (UHNW) heirs become responsible, resilient, purpose-driven stewards. Rather than just handing down financial knowledge, these programs focus on character-building, family values, and hands-on experience. Key models include family retreats, rites of passage experiences, structured coaching programs, formal…
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